Solomon Buchi: The relationship expert who refused to apologise for his caption about his fiancée
Who is Solomon Büchi and what has he done?
Popular with some sects online, Solomon Büchi is known for posting quotes about Christian relationships [Instagram/Solomon Buchi]
The essentials
Imagine this, a letter from your lover, but it starts with “YoYou’re not the prettiest or the smartest.” How would you feel? Insulted? Yes indeed! but that’s not how it ends, he goes on to say how he chose you, even though by any measure and measure (who even comes up with that idea?) you’re not the best, but don’t worry, he’s chosen to stay with you.
What’s worse, he posts this message on the Internet for all to see, and many people pity the woman and tell him his wife is a math expert and damn gorgeous.
But he doubles down on his rhetoric, insisting she knows what he means, and will block anyone who disagrees or insults him.
It gets worse for him, his caption moves from the shores of Nigeria and TheShadeRoom, a popular Instagram account in the US, posts it.
His fiancee supports him by posting a few lines trivializing his remarks and saying she’s still processing things. A couple who take pleasure in being wrong together. nice stuff
Your reply to his comment [Instagram]
He continues this train of thought – because everyone in the world is wrong but him – and goes online to tweet that people are out of work for meddling in his business.
The tweet he made to defend himself
But things got out of hand, he’s become a meme and a joke.
People post videos showing how ridiculous he is, and even E-News, a very popular entertainment media company, carries your defiant retort.
Enews post their relationship [Twitter]
Solomon Büchi, a supposed relationship expert, and his wife-to-be trending worldwide for a post he should have overturned and apologized to his wife and the public.
What should he have done?
He should have written another post to praise her good qualities, but maybe they’ve both committed to better and worse, and they must weather this suffering caused by his own hubris together.
The sky may be falling but he won’t apologize for what he said because he doesn’t owe anyone an apology and he’s right, but if you put your relationship online don’t be surprised if people comment on it.
We don’t mind our business since you’ve made your business our hot topic for the day.